I have a New DD Forum, NaughtyNey’s Resort!


Hello everyone. Myself and a good friend of mine have put together a DD forum. It is called NaughtyNey’s Resort. You can go there and touch base with other people that are like minded with you. We have just got everything going but go check it out. I am sending out invitations on Twitter to my friends and to all my blogging friends.
My forum has a place for everyone, there is a forum for M/F, F/F, M/M relationships. It also has a mentoring are for anyone, Tops/HOH’s, where I have moderators who are seasoned Tops/HOH’s that are there to help. Also there will be other members get on and help with mentoring each other.
There is a place for switches, not the kind that warm your behind, but for those that sometimes are the Top or are a bottom in relationships. I also have an area for any bottoms that need help with boundaries, or need a top to give guidance or correction.
And last but not least I have an area for all the wonderful Brats!! You can go to this forum and brat until your heart is content. I have a moderator Top that will be on there and any other top that is daring enough. You can tease, taunt and otherwise cause trouble. But beware, those tops have a huge implement closet and I’ve given them permission to use it on any bottom/brat that dares brat inside the bratting forum.
I hope you will go there and check it out. I will still be here to blog out my DD Life for those who like seeing me here. I will also be bratting it out at my resort!!! Woohoo!!! :) Come on everybody, let’s go check it out. You can find the resort at:

www.Naughtyneysresort.com/forum

Going out of my Mind


I’ve had my fair share of trouble. Some I have innocently walked right into whereas other times I boldly busted my way into big trouble. Lately I have been having issues with getting into trouble with my husband when I am really not trying to do this. If you know me at all I do like to tease so usually if I’m in trouble at all that is why.

Lately, I haven’t really been teasing or causing any trouble around my house. I’ve actually been pretty respectful to my husband. This is leaps and bounds from just six months ago but in reality I’ve been trying really hard to let him lead. I have an independent streak that really fights against the whole submissive thing we are trying to accomplish in our marriage. It makes it very hard to bend (over, hee hee) sometimes and to just do what he wants because he thinks its best.

The thing that is so hard for me right now is that I am finding myself in trouble more and more because he is becoming a more aware HOH. In my wildest dreams I had hoped he would get here but I didn’t think about how that would affect my bottom line or just my bottom. I now have a bedtime and recently learned that even on weekends I have the same bedtime but if I want to stay up later I have to get permission. EEEWWWW. I hate it. I never married till I was 28 yrs old and this is my 2nd marriage. At least 1/2 of my adult life I have been able to come and go and choose to do or not do whatever I want on my own. I no longer have that freedom. Ughh. It’s true that whatever I do affects my home. It can affect my marriage or my children significantly if I for instance stay up too late and then am either late getting them up for school or am short with them because I am tired. It isn’t fair to them that I stayed up too late. OK I GET IT.

I love my kids and my husband but I am somewhat a free spirit. I want to do whatever I want when I want. Can’t now. Not so much that I have a family now and it ties me down. It’s mostly because I am an adult and that is how they are supposed to behave.

Being the baby in my family I have always been spoiled and my husband hasn’t really changed that. He has spoiled me more than anyone. I can’t complain about that. The problem is that I have told him that I don’t want to be bratty anymore. I want to do things that help our family and help him not pull and tug at him. More and more I find that I am getting better at this but something recently has been derailing my good intentions.

I wonder if the world has changed its tilt. Nature is saying, no Ney, say it ain’t so. Don’t be good. We can’t handle it when you are good. Why does it seem this way? Mostly, because I have been getting into trouble for the last several days and I am not doing this on purpose. I don’t mean little piddly things. I mean big humongous things.

OK, so you want details huh? OK, I lost my car keys for 3 days. On a separate time I lost my bank debit card and never did find it. I had a cancel that one and order a new one. What else you say? Oh, the big one, I got charged a huge fee on an account due to an oversight on my part. All of this in less than a two week period. Is he mad you ask? All day long today he text me. I was at work and he would remind me of my impending doom later this evening. Even now I sit here waiting in fear/anticipation of the punishment spanking that is coming. This is for things I didn’t do on purpose. Why would he punish me for something I did on accident? Well you don’t know my husband. He believes that he can “inspire” me to think through things better the next time.

I’ve already done extra chores today and that was after a full day of work. OK all you Tops/HOH’s out there are saying. “Good”, he should have done more. I know you feel that way because he does too. I just wish I could quit making mistakes. I even made 2 oversights at work recently. One of them didn’t cost my company any money but the other charged a nominal fee. I hated telling my boss that I messed up.

I just don’t know whats gotten into me. I hope I get back on track soon. My bottom can’t take much more of this.

Just a little sidebar. When I came home today, I was changing and my husband came in. We talked for a few minutes and he reminded me of the spanking that I had coming tonight. I had hoped that somehow some guy marathon movie event would happen and he’d want to do that instead. I must admit that this waiting is killer though. When I was changing my husband talked to me very kindly. He said, “Ney, I just don’t know what I’m going to do with you.” I said, “I know.” He had a sparkle in his eye and I sensed that it was a tear and not him glaring at me. I was right.

He knew that I was going out of my mind worrying about my punishment spanking and the myriad of other disciplinary things he had given me. He took me in his arms and said how much he loved me. I really thought, “this is is” my spanking is here, but it wasn’t. He was just consoling his little brat. I hope I stop all this mess that has been happening lately. I never meant to do it in the first place. The more he loves me the more I want to please him.

Unfair Spanking


Why is it that guys (HOH/Tops) in general feel that they have to spank so dang hard? What gives? I smarted off one time yesterday afternoon and boy that was a spanking I don’t ever want to repeat. I have done much worse things requiring a much harsher punishment than just smarting off or teasing him about something. This was way overboard. My bottom was soooo red and literally throbbing by the time he was finished. Did I hit a nerve or maybe it questioned his authority or his manhouod. Gosh he gets so sensitive. Maybe its his “time of the month”(hee hee). Just wondered if anyone else has had this experience and/or maybe some insight. Talk to you soon. Ney

How to become less Bratty.


Oh my gosh. Did you really think that I had the answers? Really? Well, I don’t think that I do but I recently met a new friend. She has been teaching me to think differently. I once asked her how is it that you are so obedient. I said, you never cross the lines or try to stretch the boundaries. She said I don’t even go near the boundaries.

Being quite the Brat and taking pride in doing so I had to sit back and seriously contemplate what my mindset really was. My friend really is amazing. If someone asks her to do something she is there. No excuses of being involved in some other pressing project. Even when she would rather be somewhere else she will help out a friend or relative who has requested her help. Don’t get me wrong she’s not a saint, she has her moments but for the most part she is quite submissive to her Top.

So what is the answer to becoming less Bratty? Seriously guys, its being less selfish. Oh this is a hard one for me. I have been spoiled very much. My husband spoils me and puts up with my ranting and fit throwing. Hopefully this will soon stop as I really don’t think it is fair to put him through all of this bratting.

So there it is. A simple, consise way in which to become less bratty. Just become selfless. Do things for your partner. Don’t have them doing everything for you just because they always have. I know you don’t like hearing that because you are so used to being spoiled. Take a minute to really think about why you are with that person (your SO, Husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend). I bet you fell in love with what a wonderful person they are and not them being your maid.

Ok, I’ll get off my little soapbox. So, this little brat is working very hard at becoming a bottom and not so demanding. It wouldn’t hurt most of us to try to give rather than take. So thank you to my friend, you know who you are. Its not easy being a bottom/sub but its worth it.

Kay and Terri Part II


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Happy Thanksgiving! :)


Thanksgiving is one of my favorite times of the year.  Happy Thanksgiving to all my Canadian friends who are celebrating it this weekend. (Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in Canada).  I hope you all have a wonderful time with family and friends and I hope you eat alot of turkey and take great naps.  Oh, and don’t forget to say thanks for all the blessings in your life…including all those spankings.  LOL  (wg)  Ney

Chat anyone?


So I was wondering if anyone was interested in chatting on the gmail chat.  We could have a discussion about something someone wrote on one of their blogs.  We could tell stories of our spankings??? We could just shoot the breeze.  Let me know what you think.  I am already chatting with 2 of my blogging friends.  Be good now little friends.  See ya soon.  Ney

Have a Great Day! Please read this :)


I occurred to me today that there are alot of people reading my blog.  I am very humbled and honored by this.  It also occurred to me that not only am I on here to entertain but I am here to be a friend.  There are so many people who go through their day and don’t have a friend to talk to.

I want to be that friend.  Really.  I’m not perfect and I’m not a counselor so I won’t be able to solve too many problems that others may have.  What I do have is a caring heart and a desire to be your  friend.  I know some people may find this to be corny but maybe its because you have many friends.

I know what it is like to be alone and how it feels when you need to talk to a friend but no one is there.  I’m here.  Please write to me at my email address naughtyney@gmail.com or just leave a comment on my blog.  I will still write goofy things on my blog and still write stories but I just wanted YOU to know that I am more than just a blog to pass by.  Hope to hear from you soon.  Ney

Double Trouble (Continued) M/F


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Double Trouble (M/F)


The sun is about to set as my husband and I are sitting in our living room talking about our
day.  I am in the loveseat and he is in his favorite lazy boy chair.  I am telling him about my busy day and all the errands I was able to get to today.  He nods and says that it was good that I got my errands done.  I smile proudly and say “Yeah, it is good.” There is a pause and total silence in the room.

He then breaks the silence and says, “Megan, you did get the most important one done right?”  Quickly I run all of my errands through my mind trying to de-code just what THE most important one was.  (Thinking: went to the daycare and paid for the month.  I returned the slip cover that doesn’t fit our couch in the media room.  I also mailed the bills. Hmmm, what other errands did I have to run?  Still thinking, “Oh yes, I returned that late library book.”  “See, I knew I took care
of everything.”  “You took care of a lot but that isn’t the one I was talking about.
Wasn’t there something else I specifically told you to take care of today?”  I say, “Can’t you just tell me?”  He says, “Do you enjoy driving when you run errands?”  Then it hit me. Oh my gosh, I
didn’t renew my now expired driver’s license. Today was the last day to renew it before it expired.He says, “Didn’t we have a talk about what would happen if you didn’t do this today?” I begin stalling, “But, honey, I did all those other errands and the traffic was crazy
and of course I had to talk to the daycare for what seemed like forever.  And you wouldn’t believe the return line at the store. Really!” Sigh.

He speaks soft and low: (BTW not a good sign for me) “Now Megan I applaud you for having worked so hard to complete all those errands that you did do.  The problem is that you didn’t complete the most important one.”  “The one I told you to do.” “Go upstairs to our
room.” He says.  I say, “But…”  He says, “Go on.”  I turn and go up the stairs and go to our
room.  I don’t know how bad of trouble I am in exactly.  He seems so calm.  A little too calm.  I hate that.  I can’t read him when he’s like that.  I go back down the stairs to sneak a peek at what he is doing only to almost run into him at the top of the stairs.

He says, “Where do you think you are going” as he takes hold of my arm and guides me back to my
room.  I answer, “Um, I uh, …nothing.”  He says, “Well, we have some business to take care of before you go anywhere.  Isn’t that right?”  I may be a brat but I’m not dumb.  I answer, “Yes, I guess we do.”  He says, “I’m going to go get my implements and you’re going to get ready.
Do I need to explain anything more?” I answer, “No Sir.”  I usually answer very respectfully when I
have been obviously caught doing something wrong or it has been found that I
didn’t do what I was supposed to. He goes into our walk in closet where he has his implements in a locked cabinet. ( Who locks their implement cabinets anyway?)  Well I could understand why with a brat around.

Our doorbell rings while I am getting ready to prepare for my punishment.  Now normally if we were in our bedroom busy with marital affairs I wouldn’t even think about checking to see who was at our door. I hurriedly go downstairs and look through the peephole.  I see that it is my best friend in the whole world.  I know that sounds corny but she is.  It’s Kelly.  (I think to myself, “Yes, I’ll open the door and let her in and then my husband can’t spank me. Well at least not now.”)

I open the door and Kelly rushes in kind of suddenly.  “Whoa Kelly, what’s the rush?”  Kelly tells me that she is in BIG trouble with her husband for buying an expensive pair of shoes.  I ask her how much they were and she says they were $540.00.  Kelly says, “But they were on sale.  They are usually $860.00.”  I gasp and say “Do you have them with you?  I gotta see those.”  Not really thinking about how much trouble either of them was in at the moment. Why the rush to come here?  I saw Dave leaving the house coming this way.  THAT’S the rush.

About that time hearing someone talking downstairs, Rob comes to the stairs and calls for
me.  I say “I’m down here sweetie.  Kelly was at the door.”  Rob comes down the stairs and looks at me with that look of “why did you even open the door at a time like this.”  I look back and with my eyes saying, “Because it was my best friend.” Rob says Hello to Kelly and gives her a hug.  “What’s up Kelly?” Rob innocently asks. Kelly not wanting to spill the beans or lie decides to just keep it simple.  She says, “oh I’m ok I guess.”  Rob knowingly (how I don’t know) says, “You guess Kelly?”

Someone rings the doorbell again and Rob opens the door.  It’s Dave, Kelly’s husband. (In my head: “oh great that’s just what we need two tops”)  I say, “Hi Dave” and give him a hug.   Kelly is looking very scared and stand offish.  Dave says to Rob, “So how are you and Megan doing right now?”  Rob says, “Well Dave you got here just in time to see Miss Megan here get a
spanking for not renewing her driver’s license as I told her to do.

Dave laughs and says, “That’s kinda funny because I just came over here to get Kelly to do the
same thing.  Didn’t I Kelly?  Seems Kelly has been buying some very expensive shoes without talking to me about it first.”

Megan and Kelly are not feeling so well right now.  This situation has gone from bad to worse.
It’s bad enough to have one Top in the room, but two Tops.  That isn’t good.

Dave and Rob are good friends.  Each of them not only know of the others kink in spanking and DD but they have also on occasion spanked each other’s wives before.   Rob says to Megan,
“Megan go stand in the corner over there and wait for my instructions.  Dave says almost the same thing pointing to a different corner for Kelly.  Rob and Dave go Rob’s office to talk about what has happened and how they are going to discipline the girls.

While the men are away in Rob’s office  the girls turn to each other and talk about what has happened and what they could be facing.  Megan says, “This is nuts!!  I can’t believe we got ourselves into this.”  Kelly says, “Hey at least you didn’t spend almost $600.00.  Dave has let me buy things like that before but not without asking him first.  But that was such a good sale.  Oh, why didn’t I just call him and ask him.”  Megan says, “ssssshhhhhhh, they’re coming.”

The men come back into the room.  Rob speaks to both women.  “Megan, Kelly, turn around
here.  Kelly doesn’t turn around and Dave goes over to her and lands a loud and hard smack to her bottom.  Kelly cries out. Oww.  Dave says, “Kelly you listen to Rob.  Do you hear me?  Kelly says, “Yes Sir.” …to be continued

(sorry guys I had to stop here or I was gonna get it. I already have the story finished.  I just have to edit it.   It was late when I posted this and I was told to go to bed.  You won’t have to wait long.  I promise I’ll get it finished and on here tomorrow.  Lots of hugs to all my friends.  Ney)

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